It is possible to learn to do with a really funny movie, TV series and programs. See them for self-education in the field of satire and humor, and the most interesting and funny jokes write down, then to "show off their society." Alas, most modern programs do not teach you anything but vulgar and 'toilet' humor, therefore, they are totally unsuitable for study. PS Remember, sarcasm, usually offends people. 2.) Increase your vocabulary. Much nicer to talk to someone who has an extensive vocabulary.
In the United States to do this, people tend to remember the value of a few new words in day (they even have special dictionaries for this purpose). You can use a dictionary of synonyms, including Online - the Internet is a wonderful site, which immediately went out and brought to you need a similar sense of the word. 3.) Try to concentrate on finding a new circle of friends. Most likely, you will be hard to convince his old friends that you've changed - they see you the way you were. But, of course, do not throw the old friends and not to abandon those who want to communicate with you. With such advanced technologies as the Internet, you will not be difficult to find a buddy with the same interests.
Try to pay particular attention to those who live near you, after you start up between more or less lasting acquaintance, invite them to meet in reality. 4.) Talk as much as possible - this will help you become more confident and not afraid to start a conversation first: - Ask questions passersby on the street, from 'What time is it? " and 'How to get to the street of Lenin? " (A street in your town should be:)) - Interest-being of people around you: there are plenty of cases where the accident extended to the attention of a passerby saved the life, pay attention to those who are ill or sad, gently offered his assistance - greeting sellers stores, neighbors porch and the yard and handle their affairs - Take rule to always say 'Thank you' in response to the service. 5.) Read the notes of the series 'Unbelievable but true' - it's not only broaden your horizons, but also make you an interesting conversationalist. 6.) The most important rule: Do not be afraid of other people. People feel fear, resentment, envy, pride and vanity of others and begin to behave appropriately. Treat others as would like them to treat you. 7.) Get a diary in which you will fix you happen to change, both positive and negative. A negative result is also the result - it will be necessary for you objectively evaluate your actions and deeds. In addition, you can always do work on the bugs:) By the way, you can create yourself a blog: so, you can receive comments and suggestions of people online, and quickly make adjustments to its plan to turn a Master of Communication. What I I wish you good luck:) A reference to the material required.